♥♥Just some thoughts I will share…
I found out fathers day of 2006 my husband was cheating on me… long story short after several months I realized we couldn’t stay together, and I moved out!
Many years have gone by and I didn’t date any one till September 2010 when Carl asked me out! He always seemed like a nice man and I didn’t hesitate to go out with him. He used to be my neighbor at my first apartment but we never really spoke and didn’t get to know each other.
We have had a night here and there where he stayed over but the week before Christmas this year he stayed over the entire week because his parents were in town and staying at his house. He wanted them to be comfortable so he stayed here with us.
Anyway… I really enjoyed him being here… Its been such a long time since we have had a man in the house. Certainly was an adjustment for the kids as being all girls in the house they tend to walk around half-naked all the time. lol
Carl just fits in so nicely.. We do embarrass him sometimes with the way we talk but he always laughs and we all got along really well. It’s nice that the kids really like him and are as comfortable with him as I am.
I just remember being devastated that my husband was cheating and that our life together was over, I was lost and broken…Carl was always friendly even when I was not and was in my own little world of misery. I never realized Carl had any interest in me and went on oblivious until years later when he approached me. His timing couldn’t have been better because even tho my ex and I split in 2006 we didn’t divorce till 2009 and it was 2 days before I went to court for the first time and Carl asked me out! It was the boost I needed and I was ready for it at that point.
Our relationship has been easy so far and I know it wont always be that way and I really have no idea where it’s going but I like it the way it is and was really happy to have him close to me this past week. He is a special guy and I hope that he is happy with me too!!
This is just another way of giving you all hope… I spent 17 years with my ex and I felt like my life was over but it really has just begun and Carl has shown me that!! Remember, what you put out you get back.. Choose to be happy and happiness will come to you…